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I love this on avocado toast. This is as bougie as it gets! And I do love this recipe as is — the fresh taste is outstanding.
Callie

What to Do When the Tomatoes Are This Good

There is a window every summer when tomatoes are so ripe and fragrant that they barely need anything done to them. I wait for that window all year. And when it comes, this relish is exactly what I make.
Fresh tomatoes, sweet Vidalia onion, a little jalapeño heat, red wine vinegar, and parsley. No cooking. No canning. No special equipment. Just good ingredients doing exactly what they are supposed to do.
The quick pickle from the vinegar pulls everything together and deepens the flavor the longer it sits. Make it in the morning and by dinner it tastes like something that took all day.
XO,

What I Know After Making This Every Summer
Start with the best tomatoes you can find. Look for firm, heavy tomatoes with a bright, fragrant aroma near the stem. Beefsteak, Roma, cherry, or heirloom all work beautifully when they are truly ripe.
Chop everything fine and uniform. The smaller and more even your chop, the better each bite holds together on a cracker, a piece of toast, or a grilled piece of chicken. Rough chopping makes it hard to eat with anything delicate.
Taste your jalapeño before it goes in. Heat levels vary wildly from pepper to pepper. Taste a small piece first, then decide how much to add. For a crowd with mixed spice tolerance, start with half and add from there.
Give it time to chill. That one hour in the refrigerator is not optional. It is when the vinegar does its work and all the flavors come together into something much more than the sum of their parts.
Make it a day ahead when you can. This relish gets better overnight. The flavors deepen and the vinegar mellows just enough to let the tomato flavor come forward. Day two is even better than day one.

What Goes In and Why It Matters
- Fresh tomatoes are the whole point. Use whatever is ripest and most fragrant right now. The variety matters less than the quality.
- Vidalia or sweet onion adds a mild, slightly sweet bite that does not overpower the tomatoes. Regular yellow onion is sharper and will change the flavor considerably.
- Jalapeño brings a clean, bright heat. Remove the seeds and membrane for milder heat, or leave a few seeds in if you want it to have some real kick.
- Fresh flat-leaf parsley adds an herby, slightly earthy note that keeps the whole relish tasting fresh and clean. Skip the curly variety here.
- Sugar is just enough to mellow the acid from the vinegar without making this sweet. It balances rather than dominates.
- Red wine vinegar is the quick pickling agent that brings everything together and gives the relish its bright, tangy backbone.
- Salt and pepper tie it all together. Taste and adjust right before serving.

How To Make Fresh Tomato Relish
Finely chop the tomatoes, onion, jalapeño, and parsley, and add everything to a bowl.
Add the sugar, red wine vinegar, salt, and pepper. Stir until combined. Cover with plastic wrap and refrigerate for at least one hour.
Give it a good stir before serving. Full details are in the recipe card below.
Make It Ahead and Keep It Ready
Refrigerator: Store covered for up to two weeks. Give it a stir before each serving since the liquid settles.
Make it spicier as it sits: The jalapeño heat intensifies over time in the refrigerator. Keep that in mind if you are making it more than a day ahead for a crowd.
Double or triple it: This recipe scales beautifully. Make a big batch at the peak of tomato season and work through it all week.

Ten Ways to Put It on the Table
- Pile it onto toasted bread with a wedge of good cheese for an easy appetizer that looks like you put in more effort than you did.
- Spoon it over grilled chicken, pork tenderloin, or a piece of simply seasoned fish for a bright, fresh finish that makes the whole plate come alive.
- Use it as a topping for burgers and hot dogs in place of regular relish. No comparison.
- Serve it alongside a cheese board with sweet heat pickles and salami for a spread that goes fast.
- Stir a spoonful into a bowl of pinto beans or black-eyed peas and see how much it transforms a simple side.
- Toss it with warm pasta and a drizzle of olive oil for a no-cook summer pasta that comes together in minutes.
- Scoop it onto scrambled eggs or a fried egg on toast for a breakfast that tastes like a restaurant did it.
- Spoon it over cream cheese on a cracker for the easiest party appetizer you will ever put on a board.
- Layer it into a grilled cheese sandwich with sharp cheddar for something that feels completely elevated.
- Mix a spoonful into your favorite vinaigrette for a quick tomato-herb dressing that works on any salad all week.

More From My Kitchen, Made for Your Table
Equipment
Ingredients
- 1 to 1 ½ cups finely chopped tomatoes
- ½ cup finely chopped Vidalia or sweet onion
- ¼ cup finely chopped jalapeños pepper with the seed and membrane removed
- 2 tablespoons chopped fresh parsley
- 2 tablespoons sugar
- 2 ½ tablespoons red wine vinegar
- ½ teaspoon salt
- ½ teaspoon pepper
Instructions
- Add all the ingredient to a medium-size bowl. Stir to combine.
- Cover bowl with plastic wrap and place in the refrigerator to chill for 1 hour.
- Remove relish from refrigerator, stir and serve. Enjoy!
Nutrition
Questions And Answers
Relish involves some type of pickling or pickling liquid, like vinegar. While salsa is tomato-based and just uses an acid like lemon or lime juice, this tomato relish combines the best parts of both!
Nope! The beauty of this fresh relish is that all you have to do is chop the tomatoes into bite-sized pieces.
This fresh relish will keep for about two weeks if stored covered in the refrigerator. Before serving, please give it a nice stir to blend any ingredients that might have settled.
Yes, if you want to serve it at a party, simply double or triple the recipe. It gets better (and spicier) the longer it chills, so you can make it up to 2 days in advance.
If you tried this Fresh Tomato Relish Recipe or any other recipe, please leave a star rating and let me know how it went in the comments below. Thanks!


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Absolutely delicious.. added some sun-dried tomatoes and pickle juice in place of the red wine vinegar.
That sounds delicious! Sun-dried tomatoes and a splash of pickle juice are such a fun twist — I love that tangy boost. So glad you enjoyed it and made it your own!
~Donya
I can’t wait to add fresh Michigan peaches!! And I do love this recipe “as is” – the fresh taste is amazing. This is as “bougie” as it gets – I love it on avocado toast!!! 😉 LOL
Thanks Callie! I love the way you think.❤️
~Donya
Can I use arugula instead of parsley?
Hey, Stewball, go for it!
Enjoy the recipe,
~Donya